Trials, trials and more trials

While journeying through life, it is almost impossible to be without trials and tribulations. We cannot expect our lives to be perfect in all areas - even though it's what we assume of social media personalities.

One may lose their job, so suddenly, for example. Or lose an arm in a car accident. Or even worse - lose a life.

But you may be wondering - as a lot of us do when misfortune comes our way - 'why me'?

Why do we have trials and tribulations?

A Qur'anic verse comes to mind at this question: 

"And surely We shall try you with something of fear and hunger, and loss of wealth and lives and crops; but give glad tidings to the steadfast,

This is a certainty - we are bound to be tested. But Allah - God - praises those who, in the face of such tribulations, are patient and steadfast. But another question arises: why are they so? How can they be so patient when their business has gone bankrupt? They're dirt-poor? Their beloved child has died?   

The following verse is as follows: 

Who say, when a misfortune striketh them: Lo! we are Allah's and lo! unto Him we are returning." [Verses 155-156, Chapter 2; Pickthall translation]

They are patient because they remember that they belong to Allah, the Greatest and that soon, they will return to Him. They belong to the One Who created them. He is their Protector and Source of Peace. And after their brief life in this world, they will return to their Merciful Lord. These are the people who we should give glad tidings to. 

Source: https://www.newsfirst.lk/2017/03/29/9as-year-says-examinations-department/164836/

A temporary test

This life is not forever. We're born, we live and we die. This is why the patient slaves of God are not fazed by their misfortunes. They know the true reality. This will all pass eventually. Like the passing of clouds on a cool summers' day. What is five, ten, twenty years of suffering compared to an eternity of bliss? I don't mean to trivialise these tribulations - indeed, they are painful, and we all have our fair share of them - but a true believer of God has an unwavering hope of His mercy.  

One thing to remember is that death is never too far away. It doesn't only apply to the elderly. So, if we know that death will come to each and every one of us, what should matter is what we did when we were living. Because there's no going back - this is the only chance we have. To be good and do good. So that we can be recompensed with nothing but good. 

"Is the reward of goodness aught save goodness?" [Verse 60, Chapter 55; Pickthall translation]

Don't judge a book by its cover...

Having lived for more than two decades, I realise many things. It is in those moments of contemplation, a chance encounter or an experience touching my very core that these realisations occur. 

All these years I thought I knew what the well known phrase, 'Don't judge a book by its cover' meant. But it is only recently that I have come to fully realise its implications and ultimately, its significance.  

Source: https://dribbble.com/shots/4608712-Don-t-Judge-A-Book-By-Its-Cover

It was maybe three years ago when I had met a young woman at university. Her outward appearance was striking - to me, at least. My first impressions of her were unfavourable, but once I talked to her, she was smiling, friendly, welcoming. A year, or two years after that encounter, I saw her again but this time her outward appearance was different to the first time I saw her. She wore garments that made me feel humbled in her presence. I truly admired her, and thought her more beautiful than I.

It was then that I remembered my first time meeting her and how I had been unfair in my judgement. I heard my conscious reprimand me for wrongfully judging this woman and having these thoughts about her appearance. I mean, if everyone judged by appearance, who would have known that there are rubies and diamonds in the mines? Or pearls in dull-looking oyster shells?

Many people can give you a wrong impression solely by their appearance but once you get to know them and perceive them as they are (without attaching labels or assumptions about them), you will have done the right thing. Imagine judging someone just because of what they look like! How absurd it sounds! 

But then there also exist people who deceive you and others by their appearance. You would think they are respectable people, but in fact, they are the complete opposite. You may be asking, 'What to do then?!' Well, what I would do is, once their deception becomes apparent and I know that they are far from being respectable human beings (with tangible evidence!) I would avoid them like the plague. 

So, I pray to have refuge in my Lord from judging people unfairly. I pray that He perfects our character. 

And I pray to have refuge in my Lord from those who deceive:

"And of mankind are some who say: We believe in Allah and the Last Day, when they believe not. They think to beguile Allah and those who believe, and they beguile none save themselves; but they perceive not." 

[chapter 2: verses 8-9]

 

The Mountains

Living in the middle of a concrete jungle, there isn't much opportunity to observe nature in all its glory. Much less, mountains.

So it was when I was thousands of feet high, above the clouds, that I first laid my eyes on a mountain range. That of huge, snow-capped mountains. AKA The Alps (images below).

How do these mountains reach their sublime height? Some reaching the clouds, their peaks invisible. Many times bigger and larger than us, than anything we can imagine. By their width and breadth. And each shaped uniquely, all structured above the earth. And what about their extraordinary colours and hues? Some topped with snow and others without. 

Their reality is revealed in the following verses: 

''And thou seest the hills thou deemest solid flying with the flight of clouds: the doing of Allah Who perfecteth all things. Lo! He is Informed of what ye do.''

                                                         Surah An-Naml, verse 88 (Note: Pickthall translation)

''And placed therein high mountains and given you to drink sweet water therein?''

                                              Al-Mursalaat, verse 27 (Note: Pickthall translation)

''And He hath cast into the earth firm hills that it quake not with you, and streams and roads that ye may find a way.''    

                                                Surah An-Nahl, verse 15 (Note: Pickthall translation)

''Hast thou not seen that Allah causeth water to fall from the sky, and We produce therewith fruit of divers hues; and among the hills are streaks white and red, of divers hues, and (others) raven-black;''

                                                             Fatir, verse 27 (Note: Pickthall translation)

It is clear that the mountains are a huge part of the world we live in, regardless of whether or not we see them. In the above verses, they are associated with being the doing of God, i.e. a perfect creation; their height, sweet water, how firm they are above the earth and their numerous colours and hues. 

By witnessing the mountains' majesty and greatness that day in the airplane, I am reminded of the majesty and greatness of the Creator. 

Take some time out to reflect on this part of nature. This creation of the Creator, the One who ultimately knows the true reality and perfects all things.