There's nothing like reaching the highest point of appreciation. A euphoric sensation, sedating and reassuring. And it seldom occurs, for this wordly life - with its hustle and bustle - never fails to distract us.
Perhaps you're outside, on your way to work or school. Or maybe you're at home with your family. Take a moment to yourself. Slow down and look around you. Reflect on your life:
What are you grateful for?
What do you have that you can't live without and is still in your possession?
Do you remember a moment in your life that meant so much to you, you'll never forget it?
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| Above is an image of my cat. He was a sweetheart, but I didn't appreciate him until it was too late. |
You can't turn back time ...
This life, and all that is in it, is fleeting. Money comes and goes. Businesses grow and flourish, only to be bankrupt and suffer losses (do you remember the Depression? The 2008 economic crash?). People live and die. We learn from our lived experiences that these are not constant phenomena. They are always in a state of change. And, as humans, we absolutely hate change. Why? Because it takes away our security and causes us worry, among other things.
So, how should we react to such change? If there's no guarantee that anything will be permanent, what's the point in lamenting loss? Now, I know that we as emotional beings can't suppress our feelings. But in my opinion, there's no point in exaggerating and being bitter about whatever happens. I rationalise this by saying that, if you do, it does nothing except harm your mood and waste time. That said, it's best to make the most of things while they last. After all, we know from past experiences that there's no second chances. There's no turning back time.
